True, there are a lot of jerks out there-but maybe, just maybe, some of the problem lies with you. Whether you are Ms. Picky, Ms. All About Me, or Ms. Eternal Bachelorette, The Dating Cure is full of helpful and fun information to help you identify and change the negative dating patterns that could be keeping you from finding that elusive healthy long-term relationship.

Rhonda Findling is the author of The Commitment Cure and Don't Call That Man! She holds a master's degree in clinical psychology, is a certified rehabilitation counselor, and has a private practice in Manhattan and Forest Hills. Her work has been featured in Complete Woman and Cosmopolitan, and she has appeared on Good Day New York and Maury Povich.